Friday, January 29, 2010

Words For A New Baby Arrival Am I Obligated To Have A Relationship With My Baby's Father If He Hasn't Been There Since I Got Pregnant?

Am I obligated to have a relationship with my baby's father if he hasn't been there since i got pregnant? - words for a new baby arrival

OK, I am currently in the 8th Disappeared months pregnant and the father of my son before I made of "I'm pregnant." I asked for months to spend time with me for the baby to get used to it and all attempts have failed. If you are committed to do something, call or tx, when the time comes for the disappointment of their apologies. When I stopped to ask him to things such as go-dr or help me (financially support, and I am) from work, she said, the child is not here, then he (the child) is not a lack of everything. A few days ago, he contacted me and 'm asked to join in a Restarant, so we can discuss things. I waited 8 months, so I said yes without hesitation. He will meet on Tuesday, and I have in my bed and night thinking about everything that has happened, and now he wants to "talk", he hopes to do so. BC now I'm havin hesitation, he sat me when I asked to speak with him, but now shoes are on the other foot, British Columbia, near the arrival of your baby. Am i obligagteD You will not get far in their offer, despite his prayers in the past, I for their time and dismissed each time? HELLLLLLLLP!

12 comments:

Polished said...

I think I know the answer. It has absolutely nothing for you here is to bear his child. He repeatedly lied during her pregnancy, and believe not enough attention to you if you have the basic needs. Why should he be the time of the day? She has, through its lack of emotional and physical support has been shown to have financial do not give a damn what is worse than her own child. They had to ask him? Think about what you say, he had to ask .....?? I suggest letting go, file maintenance, and move on with your life if you do not want to disrespect and it is not there for your child, be like a father / man. Have a little dignity and self-respect, you deserve better and do not need a low life expectancy. Watch for yourself and the precious angel in you. I remember nothing, so that you do not.

Timid Women Rarely Make History said...

No of course not. But if I was him. If it is really very sad when the scum of the earth's crust. And he's ready to go when I say jump. Then I would be in the child's life. But I would not continue a relationship with him. This boat has sailed out to sea.

Dalton's Mommy & Kaiah due 2 said...

Well, certainly not necessary. However, it should be, if even discuss how they believe their child support, make visits, etc. are better now, instead of implementing this child anyway, and the court, etc.

Best Mom!! said...

No, no obligation, and you know. You think I should? Yo. This could be the opportunity you need to let you know how they feel and ugly And if it can, u get up and go. Leaving to check. lol

Amher said...

You have to do anything. Remember who the father of her child. does not hurt to talk. Maybe he really wants to have a role in the life of your child.

emmasmo... said...

Well, not if you want too, but we recommend that you do to agreements, when and how and where they dissolve to see his son. she is pregnant, now there is nothing that the child will also be used in order to be Dad. Sue may funding assistance, etc. available, but should not be there, emotionally or financially for the case, since until the child. if he wants to speak to him.

UpDownBl... said...

Remember, if you will, about his "son talk" that can arise simply because he "ick head before posting. If you really say anything about the pregnancy, then go there instead of just settlement with him and talk to . And if you want, you should call it - I asked him why he did apologize, and that it is not right for you.

Or if you're really angry with him, the phone and tell him about it - so he knows what he felt when he spoke an apology from / failure.

mommy to 1 =) said...

in no way obliged to take him somewhere. frankly, is not obliged to give in all the states on the sole custody of the mother if the father were not married. However, if you really ready to step in and eventually take responsibility for their actions, it might be interesting to go to meet him. at least meet him and see if it's true what they say. Semi involved father who can sometimes be worse than no father ever wants.

khllbrow... said...

** I told Sue to help her a child is missing, and in fact the child will disappear, to see his father. no money can be the hole in the heart of his son's cover when he grows up not knowing where your father. Imagine the look on his face and sell to the question "Where's Daddy?" What is said can you say about him, unless he is ready to take control of their actions and to take care of a child put it hold in a sock drawer or to the.

And do not ask cuz that shows exactly what they are weak, I do not know. Please note that your child will only remember how it grows and becomes a wealthy famous thank you for your son and his father is a piece of s *** inhis eyes. If you wish, we made him leave, but you do not forget your money, you need to help your child. Imagine if in this way, a way to win is still the battalions. Right?

Luv said...

Joy!

Toni R said...

You're never, I repeat, never forced to have a physical relationship with the father of her child. You should feel obligated to have some kind of relationship for the benefit of his son, so that your child does not feel he or she does not love both parents. It would be wrong to deprive his son of the love of the Father. They do not know what kind of father is, and it does not necessarily have the kind of parents you, the parents do not agree on estuaries, like their children, because you each have different values of their parents. You may want a DNA test, because people are afraid, even if for a fact that there is to know. I do not know what I know more than me. Most people learn on the fly. If he is not a DNA test, enter it as soon as possible on behalf of your child with an early relationship with his father. When the baby is born, should be legally acceptable if the courts Children born out of wedlock. You can staff to the Attorney General and enter the following role. Counsel for GEral asked whether a DNA to test. He, say such as the right to "Yes" or white, but that is their choice. After the judge perternity is exstablished ligitimize child. In other words, the child is legally your child. Until then, I think, be the child is not legally obligated to do something. Love is not a cure-all, as a mother who must have the right to his son, to protect a father. If it is what frightened him, put my ease, I say that the two go together is to the Attorney General, because it is the best way to ensure that your child is legally entitled to his father. You never know what keeps his life. Most young people are fleeing because they know what to do. Even when running the child, and therefore I have. Tell him to see how and why he was not there for you, and do not be angry if it is against him, not what you here. That's why I have given you a solution, but if that's what I think can go. I hope that this would make an attempt discissionhim. If you tell the attorney general, they will support as a couple, but not paying child.

Mommy to Serenity Ann said...

They have done something, but you must remember he is the father of your child and you should try to maintain a civil relationship with him for saving his son. If I were you, I would be happy to meet and be the person, just because it is a $ during her pregnancy does not mean that you need down to their level. To meet and discuss the most important thing between the two of you, your son. Good luck.

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